IT'S OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY Rainbow Sweatshirt

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  • Ships in 7-10 days. Made to order.


She was a Ms. Sunshine. She always had a smile on her face; she was happy to help others; she had the infectious "Can Do" attitude. 

Behind her beautiful smile was a little girl crying silently, alone in a dark room. She didn't let her true self seen by anyone. Instead, she told the little girl:

"Be positive."
"Be happy."
"Everything will be okay."

She was ashamed of her weak little girl. She ignored her. She scolded her.

But the cry got louder. The pain got deeper. And one day, she couldn't hold it any more. She had to let it out. A flood of anger, fear, sadness, and shame bursted out.

It was a mess. But she survived.

And now she's learning to live with the little girl. She embraces the little girl with love, kindness, and patience. When the little girl wants to cry, she says:

"It's okay to not be okay."

She cries with her together. And they get back on their feet. They take a step forward. Together.

And that's how she find her way to be okay again. By being okay with not being okay.


We designed this sweatshirt to normalize mental health conversations and to inspire self-acceptance and self-love. If you're suffering from anxiety, depression, or other mental health problems, please know that you're not alone. Please don't feel ashamed or guilty for being not okay. Please accept and love yourself, including your mistakes, imperfections, and mental struggles.

The hoodie features a rainbow, a symbol of resilience, and hand drawn hearts for self-love. 


  • True to size
  • Ships in 7 business days
  • A portion of the sales will be donated to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention

    Processing Time

    • 7-10 days from order to ship
    • All our clothes are printed with much love, on demand in Massachusetts

    Shipping Cost & Speed (US)

    Package Weight Cost Method Speed
    Under 1lb $4 USPS First Class 2-5 business days
    1lb or more $9 USPS Priority 1-3 business days


    Return & Exchange

    • 30-day free return & exchange
    • Please email to initiate return & exchange

        Our crewneck sweatshirts are super light and comfy. You won't want to take it off ❤️

        This sweatshirt features drop shoulder and creates over-sized look. The inside is lined with super-soft sponge fleece. Great choice for a self-care day.


        • 52% airlume combed ring-spun cotton, 48% poly fleece


        • Drop Shoulder
        • Crewneck
        • Unisex Sizing
        • Ribbed cuffs and waistband


        • Machine wash warm, inside out, with like colors
        • Only non-chlorine bleach 
        • Tumble dry low
        • Medium iron, if needed
        • Do not dry clean

        HOW IT'S MADE

        • We source our blank sweatshirts from Bella Canvas, a Los Angeles based company known for being eco-friendly and 100% no sweatshops 😍 The sweatshirts are Manufactured in a WRAP certified eco-friendly factory
        • Once your order is placed, we hand-print happii messages on a blank garment in Massachusetts

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            Love Yourself and Keep Go;ng

            Hey friend, we're so happii you're here;

            Founded by a mom with depression and anxiety, our mission is to promote mental health, self-love, and resilience.

            Our products carry messages to remind you that you can do hard things, and you're worthy and enough even in your darkest moments.

            We give back 10% of sales to mental health orgs and programs to help those in need.

            Let's practice happii thoughts together.
            Because you deserve to be happy.

            From Our Customers

            I was always ashamed to say I had anxiety because I felt it made me less than everyone else.

            Finding your apparel has allowed me to no longer hide who I am. I have found the strength to be more authentic through your story .

            I thank you for giving me the strength to be honest and open with my anxiety and the struggles that are associated with it. I have learned that I am good enough even if I have anxiety.

            Please keep go;ng and keep providing ways for people to show their authentic self and face the anxiety and mental illnesses without shame. I have suffered my entire life with anxiety and depression I have finally found a way to stop hiding it behind a smile and by saying “I’m fine”.

            Clothes With A Mission

            Inspiring self-love and resilience is our mission. Our clothes carry this mission inside and out, literally.

            While our clothes feature messages to raise mental health awareness OUTSIDE, they also carry secret messages INSIDE 😍

            Current secret affirmations:
            ❤️ I am more than my bad days
            🧡 I am worthy of love and happiness
            💛 I will speak to myself with kindness
            💚 I will focus on what I can control
            💜 I can do hard things

            Happii x AFSP

            We're honored to announce a partnership with American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, Massachusetts Chapter🙏

            In 2022, a portion of your purchase will be used to support local and national suicide prevention efforts.

            Why Choose Happii

            Mental Health Reminders

            Our products help build healthy mental health skills such as positive self-talk and growth mindset

            We Give Back

            We give back 10% of our sales to mental health orgs and programs

            Be Kind To The Earth

            Our packages ship in biodegradable or recycled packaging